Because employers are at an advantage in the current job market, some leaders develop a superior attitude, implying that the employee is lucky to have a job (somewhat true but not nice to say). Others recognize that even with lots of job seekers out there, keeping their star employees is even more important because of the hiring and training costs involved in adding staff.
Those employers that appreciate happy productive employees are more likely to say things like “thanks, good job” or let me know if you need help” or even “why don’t you take the rest of the day off – you’ve worked hard to complete this project”. Their employees are also more productive overall (See my previous blog on paying for performance).
A column in Bloomberg Businessweek, by Liz Ryan (10/4/2011) gives some great examples of what “bad bosses” say and how it negatively affects the company. One I’ve already alluded to- “If you don’t want this job, I’ll find someone who does”. These bosses love to remind employees that it’s all about the money, and that “You work for me”. In actual fact money is not as important in a professional relationship as feeling like the employee makes an important contribution.
Another (and we’ve all heard it) is “I don’t pay you to think”. In my experience, those bosses felt threatened by anyone with a good idea, or they were stuck in old ways and didn’t want to make an effort to change. Any employee with a brain is going to look for a new job asap.
How about “I’ll take it under advisement”? Much like Mom or Dad saying “We’ll see”, and not a very positive response. It usually means the boss doesn’t value your input enough to make an effort.
“Bring me solutions – not problems” can be perceived in two ways. During the “re-engineering” craze in the ‘80s this was a catchphrase for the movement. It should be empowering to the employees , as those closest to the problem usually can find better solutions. It has also been misinterpreted as “don’t complain – just deal with it”, not nearly as positive an attitude. It is also possible, that in the complicated business environment we live in now, the solution is a much more complicated one, and needs a manager’s involvement.
“Who gave you permission” is such an antiquated attitude, but does still prevail. Any organization has rules and guidelines for the workplace and the business, but when employees want to stick their collective necks out and try new ideas, there should be support and advice available from management – rather than roadblocks. Companies that can respond quickly to new opportunities or crises don’t use that phrase.
Others – “sounds like a personal problem to me”, “drop everything and do this NOW”, and “everyone here feels the same way” can be belittling and create a negative work environment to those having to hear these comments. So, whether you are just leading a meeting, or leading a department, think before opening your mouth “how would this sound if a boss said it to me”? Thinking before speaking is always a good idea!
Tags: change management, employee morale, employment issues
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